When someone is actively dying, the most important first step is to contact a Catholic priest as soon as possible, ideally before the person becomes unconscious. The priest can administer key sacraments such as the Anointing of the Sick, Confession, and Viaticum (final holy Communion), all of which help prepare the person spiritually for death. While some prayers can still be offered if the person is unconscious, the Church emphasizes that receiving these sacraments while conscious is a powerful source of grace, peace, and preparation for meeting God.
In addition to the sacraments, families are encouraged to create an environment of spiritual comfort and reconciliation. This includes asking the dying person if there are any final words they wish to share, encouraging forgiveness or reconciliation with others, and gathering loved ones for prayer. Prayers such as the Rosary or Divine Mercy Chaplet, along with scripture readings and the Commendation of the Dying, can provide deep comfort and assurance of faith.
Overall, the focus is on surrounding the person with love, prayer, and the Church’s rites to help them peacefully transition from this life.